A relationship is about being with another person, a whole other human being, who is an individual has their own thoughts and opinions. It’s about being the one person they know they can always turn to when the whole world has turned their back on them, and being loyal to their cause for living and fighting, respecting whatever decision they make, and supporting them through their mistakes, and helping to make it all better so that you can see them smile again. It’s about being their best friend all the time, even when the two of you are at a disagreement, someone you can laugh with, and be comfortable around, and being their lover, when they need your touch most, and someone who will motivate you and you make an effort of 100% to make them proud.
It’s about not pushing each others points of views, and beliefs on each other, but showing each other a whole other world, and again respecting their decision to either enter, or leave that world to yourself. It’s about acknowledging the fact that they are an individual with their own necessities and feelings, and fulfilling their needs, and valuing their emotions. It’s about being patient enough with them to understand, listening to them before you say a word, putting their own situation first, so that you can try and help them, and if there is no way to help, then at the very least comfort and simply be by there side.
It’s also about being faithful to them. It’s about two individuals coming together as completely separate people with their own heart, mind, body and soul, and over time becoming one. And not only liking it, but loving it. It’s about feeling nothing but love for this other person, and both of you wanting nothing but to be together always, because you know that you are complete. It’s about never feeling empty or alone in this world, because they have filled every part of your world, and are always there beside you. It’s about meaning everything to each other.
